Sharing My Experienced on Emirati Arab Muslim Wedding
By Joanna Vidal
Hi, beautiful people! Welcome back to my blog — it’s me again, Joanna! In this post, I’m going to share my unforgettable experience attending an Arab Muslim wedding here in the UAE. I’ll also give you some helpful tips, especially if you’re ever invited to one. Curious about what it’s like? Keep reading!
What to Expect at an Arab Muslim Wedding
If you’ve been invited to an Arab Muslim wedding and you’re not sure what to expect, don’t worry — I’ve been there! This blog will give you a clear idea of what the experience is like, especially for non-Arab or non-Muslim guests. From what to wear to how to behave, a little knowledge goes a long way in helping you enjoy the moment and show proper respect.
Although modern influences are present, many Arab weddings still carry strong traditional elements — and that’s what makes them so special.
The Venue Experience (Ladies’ Side)
In many Muslim weddings, especially in the Gulf region like the UAE, male and female guests are separated. If you’re a woman invited by the groom or bride, you’ll attend the women’s venue — so make sure to check your invitation carefully! It usually includes the location for each side.
At the reception, you might be asked for an access pass and whether you have a camera. Some weddings are strict about photography to respect privacy, so be mindful even if it’s allowed.
When I first attended, I felt a little unsure of what to expect. But once I opened myself to learning and observing, I began to appreciate the beauty of their customs. Most guests are family, close friends, and relatives — and yes, you’ll definitely stand out if you’re not from the culture, but that’s okay. Just be respectful and open-minded.
A Touch of Glamour
Before entering the hall, there’s often a perfume station where you can spray beautiful Arabian scents — a unique and luxurious touch! As you step inside, female guests remove their abayas (the black cloak) since everyone inside is female. However, if a male guest (like the groom or a close male relative) is entering, staff will notify everyone so women can cover up again.
Now, let’s talk fashion! These weddings are like glamorous red-carpet events — think elegant gowns, sparkly sequins, and vibrant colors. A long dress or a modest mid-length dress works well. Avoid anything too casual like jeans or T-shirts. You want to blend in with the elegant vibe.
Seating, Food & Hospitality
When you find a table, politely ask if you may join the group. Choose a spot where you feel comfortable because that’s where you’ll be served your meal later. You’ll be offered snacks, tea, coffee, juice, and traditional sweets before the main meal. Try everything — you might not get the chance again!
The food is abundant and delicious. But don’t fill up too soon — the best is yet to come.
The Dance & Celebration
I noticed a beautiful tradition: women dancing in a circle while waving colorful fabrics. Others cheer them on by making a trilling sound with their tongues — it’s a joyful expression of celebration. I also heard that sometimes older women observe dancers to find potential matches for their sons. It’s a sweet and respectful part of their culture.
The bride’s grand entrance is a highlight. She walks in wearing a stunning gown, often white or traditional in design. Everyone admires her — it’s her special moment, and honestly, it’s hard not to imagine your own future wedding!
A Peek at the Men’s Presence
Only close male relatives — like the groom, fathers, and brothers — are allowed inside the women’s venue. When the groom enters, the couple signs the marriage contract. During this moment, it’s common for the families to shower the couple with money, symbolizing blessings and prosperity. Some kids love this part — they collect the notes flying around the dance floor!
My Thoughts & Takeaways
Arab weddings usually last for about three days, but the first day is the most grand and festive. Gifts aren’t expected, but if you’re close to the couple, you can give one before or after the celebration. A day before the wedding, there’s often a smaller gathering at the bride’s home — a perfect chance to offer gifts more personally.
All in all, it was an unforgettable experience. I feel incredibly lucky to witness such a meaningful cultural event. It taught me so much about respect, tradition, and joy in celebration.
What I Wore
In the photo above, I’m wearing a nude-toned long dress with a small matching sling pouch. It wasn’t expensive, but it looked simple yet elegant — perfect for the occasion.
The next time I attended a wedding, I stepped it up! I wore a royal blue fitted gown with a slit, paired with black 3-inch lace-up heels and the same pouch (minus the sling this time). That photo was taken outside the venue.
If you have dresses like these, they’re perfect for the event! (The two lovely ladies in the photo are my younger sisters.)
One photo even shows my sister during her school prom — and yes, that kind of dress also fits the style you’ll see at weddings!
If I missed any details or if you’ve had a similar experience, feel free to share in the comments. I’d love to hear your story!
Thank you so much for reading, beautiful people — I hope you enjoyed this blog as much as I enjoyed writing it.
Thank you so much for reading, beautiful people — I hope you enjoyed this blog as much as I enjoyed writing it.
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