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Why Do Relationships Fail? A Personal Reflection on Cheating and Emotional Disconnect By Joanna J Vidal Hey there, beautiful souls!  So I've been thinking a lot lately about something we've all either lived through or watched unfold around us – that gut-wrenching moment when cheating crashes into a relationship like an uninvited guest. Look, I'm no relationship guru with fancy degrees hanging on my wall.  I’m just someone who has lived, listened, and learned, someone who’s been through heartbreak and heard the same pain echoed in the stories of others close to me. It's wild how normalized cheating seems these days, right? Scroll through your social feeds or listen to conversations at happy hour, infidelity pops up everywhere like those annoying ads you can't skip. I've watched it tear through rock-solid marriages, long-term partners, casual dating, and those weird "we're-something-but-nothing" situations we've all found ourselves in. This blog ...

 F ilipino Traditional Wedding: Experience from my Sister's Wedding By Joanna Vidal The bride walking down the aisle with our parents during the church ceremony In my previous blog post, I shared about the traditional Arab Muslim wedding. This time, I want to take you into something much closer to my heart—the beauty and complexity of a traditional Filipino Roman Catholic wedding. As someone who grew up with these customs, I’ve seen how modern life has started to reshape our traditions. Many couples today choose more practical or modern approaches due to financial constraints. Honestly, it makes me a little sad—because there’s something magical about the old ways. But I also understand. Life isn’t easy, and sometimes simplicity is the smarter choice. So instead of talking about tradition in theory, let me share something real and personal—my sister’s wedding in 2024. It was a beautiful blend of tradition and modern convenience, a hybrid celebration that honored our culture while ad...

True Friendship is Rare and it’s Okay By Joanna Vidal Hi, I’m Joanna — the voice behind Unjoannables Blog. I share honest stories from the heart, inspired by real-life experiences. From friendship lessons and personal reflections to beauty tips, travel adventures, lifestyle hacks, and more — this blog is my little corner where I connect with others through truth and growth. I believe in kindness, faith, and the power of healing through words. Thanks for being here — I hope you find something that speaks to you. People often say that true friends are the ones you meet during childhood. But now that I’m in my 30s, I’ve walked away from many friendships I once thought would last forever. Maybe some would say I have an attitude problem, but for me, I simply let go when I feel unappreciated — when the friendship I’m trying to build doesn’t feel mutual. As I grow older and more independent, I’ve learned that having many friends isn’t as important as having a few real ones. One or two genuine...

A Filipino Family Business Story: How Our Small Beach Business Became a Legacy By Joanna Vidal A photo of an aerial view of our village and nearby areas, showing the seaside and the river that connects to the sea.  (Photo credit to the owner.) Welcome Back, My Dear Readers! Today’s blog post is extra special—it’s deeply personal, nostalgic, and close to my heart. I’m sharing the story of our family business back home in Pangasinan, Philippines. If you’ve been following my journey, you already know I’m a proud Filipina, born and raised in a small seaside village. My childhood was filled with simple joys and the kind of life where every family member played a role in helping make ends meet. We didn’t have much, but we had each other—and the ocean. One of the most unforgettable parts of my childhood was helping with our small beachside business: renting nipa huts (locally called kubo) to day-trippers and vacationers. These weren’t fancy resorts—just humble bamboo cottages with thatche...