My Journey as an Expat in the UAE: From Uncertainty to Growth
By Joanna Vidal
On October 3, 2014, I took a leap of faith and stepped into the unknown. I arrived in the United Arab Emirates, ready to face a new chapter of my life. I had just turned 23—a first-time Overseas Filipino Worker (OFW) with no idea what life abroad would be like.
Everything felt unfamiliar. The climate was overwhelming, the time difference disorienting, and the cultural diversity made me feel like a small fish in a vast ocean. I was scared. I doubted myself. As an introvert with little self-confidence, I wasn’t sure I could handle it. But slowly, with time and grace, I learned to adapt.
A Reality Check Before You Leave
Going abroad sounds exciting—but it’s not for the faint of heart. You’ll feel lonely. You’ll question your decisions. Some people give up early and return home. But this isn’t just a dream—it’s a serious commitment. My parents spent nearly a hundred thousand pesos to help me prepare. I couldn’t afford to let fear waste that sacrifice.
Before I left the Philippines, I followed every step of the process—gathering documents, packing carefully, and making sure everything was in order. When I reached the airport, I reminded myself that this was more than a journey—it was a mission for my future.
Adjusting to Life in the UAE
The UAE is modern and welcoming, but still deeply rooted in its traditions. One of the first things I had to adapt to was clothing. Back home, it’s normal to wear shorts or sleeveless tops, but here, modesty is part of the culture. Respecting that is important—not just to blend in, but to honor the country and protect yourself from misunderstandings.
The beauty of the UAE is its diversity. People come from all over the world, bringing different languages and accents. No one laughs at you for how you speak—instead, they listen, understand, and appreciate the effort. That gave me a sense of belonging.
Struggles That Shape You
Living alone is not easy. I had to learn how to cook for myself, wash and iron my own clothes, and go to the clinic by myself when I was sick. Back home, my family took care of me—but here, I had no choice but to become strong. There were moments I cried. Moments I wanted to give up. But I reminded myself why I was here—to grow, to help my family, and to build a better future.
I missed home—badly. I missed my mom’s voice and the comfort of familiar faces. But every time homesickness hit, I focused on my “why.” I called my mom, talked to supportive friends, and reminded myself: this is part of the process. Growth never comes without struggle.
Finding Joy in the Journey
Despite the challenges, the UAE has given me unforgettable experiences. I’ve stood before the majestic Burj Khalifa and visited the luxurious Emirates Palace and Burj Al Arab. I’ve traveled on the organized and efficient metro system, explored almost all seven emirates, and even seen a real camel—something I’d only seen in books before.
I learned that Dubai isn’t a country (like I used to think!)—it’s part of the UAE, which includes Abu Dhabi, Sharjah, Ras Al Khaimah, Umm Al Quwain, Ajman, and Fujairah. Each emirate has its own charm and unique experiences to offer.
Transportation is top-notch here. Buses run on time, roads are clean, and everything is designed for convenience. During sales, I could even buy gold, chocolates, and branded clothes at prices I never imagined.
Winter is my favorite season here—cool and refreshing. The summers may be intense, but they’ve taught me resilience. I’ve also explored international cuisines. Biryani became my comfort food, and Filipino dishes are everywhere, so I never feel too far from home.
Growing Beyond My Expectations
Working here has opened doors I never knew existed. I didn’t just find a job—I found opportunities to grow. In my free time, I studied computer and secretarial courses and earned a certificate. I met new friends, built new skills, and realized that growth begins the moment you step outside your comfort zone.
I came from a simple family. I didn’t expect much from life, but here I am, standing tall with more than two years of experience behind me, learning, growing, and building a life I’m proud of.
To anyone who dreams of working abroad—yes, it’s hard. Yes, it can be lonely. But if you keep your heart strong and your purpose clear, you’ll come out braver, wiser, and stronger. Trust the process. Have faith. And most importantly, help yourself rise.
Your dream is valid. Your effort is worth it. And your journey—no matter how challenging—can become your greatest story.
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