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My Journey as an OFW in the UAE: Real Stories, Challenges, and Success Tips


My Journey as an Expat in the UAE: From Uncertainty to Growth

By Joanna Vidal

On October 3, 2014, I took a leap of faith and stepped into the unknown. I arrived in the United Arab Emirates, ready to face a new chapter of my life. I had just turned 23—a first-time Overseas Filipino Worker (OFW) with no idea what life abroad would be like.


Everything felt unfamiliar. The climate was overwhelming, the time difference disorienting, and the cultural diversity made me feel like a small fish in a vast ocean. I was scared. I doubted myself. As an introvert with little self-confidence, I wasn’t sure I could handle it. But slowly, with time and grace, I learned to adapt.


A Reality Check Before You Leave


Going abroad sounds exciting—but it’s not for the faint of heart. You’ll feel lonely. You’ll question your decisions. Some people give up early and return home. But this isn’t just a dream—it’s a serious commitment. My parents spent nearly a hundred thousand pesos to help me prepare. I couldn’t afford to let fear waste that sacrifice.


Before I left the Philippines, I followed every step of the process—gathering documents, packing carefully, and making sure everything was in order. When I reached the airport, I reminded myself that this was more than a journey—it was a mission for my future.


Adjusting to Life in the UAE


The UAE is modern and welcoming, but still deeply rooted in its traditions. One of the first things I had to adapt to was clothing. Back home, it’s normal to wear shorts or sleeveless tops, but here, modesty is part of the culture. Respecting that is important—not just to blend in, but to honor the country and protect yourself from misunderstandings.


The beauty of the UAE is its diversity. People come from all over the world, bringing different languages and accents. No one laughs at you for how you speak—instead, they listen, understand, and appreciate the effort. That gave me a sense of belonging.


Struggles That Shape You


Living alone is not easy. I had to learn how to cook for myself, wash and iron my own clothes, and go to the clinic by myself when I was sick. Back home, my family took care of me—but here, I had no choice but to become strong. There were moments I cried. Moments I wanted to give up. But I reminded myself why I was here—to grow, to help my family, and to build a better future.


I missed home—badly. I missed my mom’s voice and the comfort of familiar faces. But every time homesickness hit, I focused on my “why.” I called my mom, talked to supportive friends, and reminded myself: this is part of the process. Growth never comes without struggle.


Finding Joy in the Journey


Despite the challenges, the UAE has given me unforgettable experiences. I’ve stood before the majestic Burj Khalifa and visited the luxurious Emirates Palace and Burj Al Arab. I’ve traveled on the organized and efficient metro system, explored almost all seven emirates, and even seen a real camel—something I’d only seen in books before.


I learned that Dubai isn’t a country (like I used to think!)—it’s part of the UAE, which includes Abu Dhabi, Sharjah, Ras Al Khaimah, Umm Al Quwain, Ajman, and Fujairah. Each emirate has its own charm and unique experiences to offer.


Transportation is top-notch here. Buses run on time, roads are clean, and everything is designed for convenience. During sales, I could even buy gold, chocolates, and branded clothes at prices I never imagined.


Winter is my favorite season here—cool and refreshing. The summers may be intense, but they’ve taught me resilience. I’ve also explored international cuisines. Biryani became my comfort food, and Filipino dishes are everywhere, so I never feel too far from home.


Growing Beyond My Expectations


Working here has opened doors I never knew existed. I didn’t just find a job—I found opportunities to grow. In my free time, I studied computer and secretarial courses and earned a certificate. I met new friends, built new skills, and realized that growth begins the moment you step outside your comfort zone.


I came from a simple family. I didn’t expect much from life, but here I am, standing tall with more than two years of experience behind me, learning, growing, and building a life I’m proud of.


To anyone who dreams of working abroad—yes, it’s hard. Yes, it can be lonely. But if you keep your heart strong and your purpose clear, you’ll come out braver, wiser, and stronger. Trust the process. Have faith. And most importantly, help yourself rise.


Your dream is valid. Your effort is worth it. And your journey—no matter how challenging—can become your greatest story.



Pictures of me  &  Pictures taken by me 


During Christmas season





The world trade centre in Abu Dhabi the establishment is made of  strong wood and has twin tower end to end




One of my favourite activities



A good stolen shot of me in a restaurant




A nice coffee shop in Abu Dhabi 



Arabian people cooking sweets in an event






Arab traditional stick dance




I think that camel smile at me 





The Emirates Palace I heard that they decorated with real gold inside






Beautiful buildings view from outside of Emirates Palace




The very prestigious Grand Mosque in Abu Dhabi some of famous Hollywood celebrities went here like Rihanna and Selena Gomez 






The well-known highest building in the world Burj Khalifa in Dubai at my back view




The luxurious hotel Burj Al Arab 





A very nice place in Dubai near Burj Al Arab 





Fruit world in Dubai you can order any kind of fresh juices 






The dancing fountain and fireworks in Sharjah Lake





White sand beach between part of Dubai and Sharjah 
(wearing bikinis are allowed in the beach area provided that you are in open beach that allows it. Be careful of taking pictures it is prohibited especially if there are ladies in that area some beach are separated for women, family and men)  



My recognition day when I study to advance in computer and secretarial in Abu Dhabi





 





It is not bad to think of yourself sometimes but knows your limit and priorities in life at the same time find your happiness to fulfil your worth life living. 



Thank you I hope you inspired by reading my blog have a happy life, beautiful people!





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